Everyone has their own perspectives for every situation in life. For instance, many would believe that friendship is more important than personal success. I, however, disagree with that matter. Yes, having a good friendship in life is important, but that will not help you success to your max in life.
If you put aside your personal success, then what are you going to have left if one friend turns their back on you? Truth is you can not depend on people. Everyone in life is only worried about themselves; therefor, if you focus more on other people and putting them before you, you will be left empty.
Having good friends that will want the best for you but will not stop you from your dreams is what a true and healthy friendship is. People grow and change everyday, your personal success is something you need to do for you. One day you will create a family of your own and you will need to have something to give to them. If you spend all your life trying to please friends, you forget about what it is really important.
Success is important because it determines how you will live and emotional stage at times. Friendship also determines emotional stage, but it does not determine how you will live the rest of your life. There is times where having success but no friendship happens, but friendship is something you build and can happen at any time. Success, on the other hand, does not happen from one day to another.
Wednesday, April 20, 2016
Wednesday, April 13, 2016
Slackers: The Real Definition
The dictionary states that "a slacker is a person who avoids work or effort," but what is the actual meaning of this? A slacker who avoids certain task has a reason behind it. Some do it because their work is no longer being recognized. They put off their work to the side in hopes that the next person will finish it. Many just go through life seeing what they can get away with.
When assigned a certain task, they do as little as they can without any motivation. A slacker doesn't have many motives in life, therefor take every responsibility carelessly .
When assigned a certain task, they do as little as they can without any motivation. A slacker doesn't have many motives in life, therefor take every responsibility carelessly .
Wednesday, April 6, 2016
People Join Cults Because...
When you think of someone that joins a cult, you automatically ask yourself why someone would do such a thing. In reality, one of the main reasons people join cults is because they feel accepted into a "family". Many individuals do not have that fairy tale loving family so they go out looking for something that comes close to it. In cults, people share the same believes which gives them acceptance they are looking for. This is the same reason why people join gangs. They all fall into the same category. Individuals are mainly looking for acceptance that they probably did not get at home.
Wednesday, March 23, 2016
Procrastination
Procrastination is something that many people suffer from now adays including myself. Although there are many reasons why people procrastinate, mine are a little bit different from most.
People procrastinate because they do not know how to manager time. Others because they do not like what they need to get finished. Many also procrastinate because they try to do many things at a time and end up getting nothing done. They always feel as if they have plenty of time, next thing you know, you are minutes away from having to turn in an assignment (or whatever it is you decided to procrastinate on).
When people think about procrastination, they immediately think of a lazy person. Even though there are many reasons for this, my reason is simply because I love to sleep. I rather be sleeping than getting work done. It is my time to get away and I love getting away.
People procrastinate because they do not know how to manager time. Others because they do not like what they need to get finished. Many also procrastinate because they try to do many things at a time and end up getting nothing done. They always feel as if they have plenty of time, next thing you know, you are minutes away from having to turn in an assignment (or whatever it is you decided to procrastinate on).
When people think about procrastination, they immediately think of a lazy person. Even though there are many reasons for this, my reason is simply because I love to sleep. I rather be sleeping than getting work done. It is my time to get away and I love getting away.
Wednesday, March 16, 2016
Phones
One thing that really gets under my skin is when you are talking to someone and they are looking down at their phone. I'm sure that I am not the only one that feels this way though. This is a very disrespectful thing and a way to unleash my anger. People just don't understand that when they are talking to you, as human beings, we are required to give them the attention they deserve. Otherwise, you are disrespecting that person. You are taking their time for granted and degrading their value.
When you are having a conversation with someone, you like to feel understood. Of course, when you are having a conversation with someone that is paying more attention to their phone, It makes you feel disrespected. You are taking time out of your day to talk to them and their are not giving you the spot you deserve. Nobody likes to have to repeat themselves specially because the other person was looking at their phone.In a way, that makes you feel like the phone has more importance than you do. I just don't understand how someone can make someone else feel less important. Phones are materialistic items and humans will one day leave this world. People should start paying more attention to the people around them because no one is guaranteed to live another day.
When you are having a conversation with someone, you like to feel understood. Of course, when you are having a conversation with someone that is paying more attention to their phone, It makes you feel disrespected. You are taking time out of your day to talk to them and their are not giving you the spot you deserve. Nobody likes to have to repeat themselves specially because the other person was looking at their phone.In a way, that makes you feel like the phone has more importance than you do. I just don't understand how someone can make someone else feel less important. Phones are materialistic items and humans will one day leave this world. People should start paying more attention to the people around them because no one is guaranteed to live another day.
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